Talking About Boundaries With My Son

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JAVAREE TALKS

Before my recent surgery, a procedure to correct a health issue, I knew it was essential to have an open conversation with my son. I wanted him to understand that, for a while, I wouldn't be able to lift him (My doctor forbade me from lifting more than 15 lbs for four weeks following the procedure) or play rough-and-tumble games as usual. He needed to know that jumping on me could hurt my healing wounds and that I'd need to take it easy for a while.

That conversation was crucial to ensuring his physical awareness, building trust, and setting clear expectations.

When kids are left in the dark about why things are changing, they can become confused or frustrated. This can lead to them acting out or feeling anxious. By talking openly about the situation, I showed my son that it's okay to be vulnerable and ask for help, even as a parent. Communication helps kids process changes in their environment and emotions, setting the groundwork for deeper connection and understanding.

Tips to communicate life changes:

Be honest but age-appropriate:

Explaining what's happening in a way they can understand is crucial. This builds trust and shows respect for their intelligence and emotional maturity, fostering a secure and open relationship with your children.

Set clear expectations:

By letting them know what changes to expect and how they can help, you're not only providing a sense of security and preparedness for your children but also boosting your confidence in managing the situation, which can help alleviate their anxiety.

Reassure them:

It's important to let them know that while things may be different for a bit, it's not permanent. This reassurance is a key factor in providing comfort and reducing their anxiety about the changes, giving you peace of mind about your children's emotional well-being.

Invite their empathy:

Frame the situation so they feel involved in helping the family, fostering empathy and responsibility.

This approach helped me heal better physically. My son's understanding and cooperation made it easier for me to follow the doctor's instructions and care for myself. It also deepens our emotional bond during a change, making us feel closer and more connected.

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