“Not You, I Want Mommy!”

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In This Week’s Newsletter:

• Quote of The Week - Don't worry that children never listen to you; worry that they are always watching you - Unknown

• Javaree Talks - Navigating parental preferences

• Good On Social - Navigating parental preferences

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• Dad Joke Of The Week - Leaf of the party?

JAVAREE TALKS 

How many of you have been there when your kid doesn't want you to do a simple task such as changing a diaper because they prefer mom?

When your toddler strongly prefers one parent, it’s not rejection—it’s part of their development as they explore control and autonomy. I remember when my son went through a phase of always asking his mom to brush his teeth or change his diaper. It stung, and I couldn’t help but wonder if I was doing something wrong. But over time, I realized this was just a normal part of toddlerhood—it wasn’t about me but his desire to control his world. I've been there, and I understand how you might be feeling. Remember, you’re not alone in this.

4 tips for handling preference

• Stay Composed: Getting frustrated can reinforce the behavior.

• Acknowledge Feelings: Try saying, “I know you wanted Mommy, but I’m here now—let’s make the best of it.”

• Maintain Boundaries with Care: Saying no while lovingly recognizing their emotions is okay.

• Shift Perspective: Preferences are temporary and regular. Your toddler isn’t rejecting you; they’re seeking ways to feel powerful.

Reframe the moment for yourself

It’s natural to feel hurt, but here’s another way to think about it: Children need different things at different times and find them in different people. If your child is seeking comfort from their other parent, use the time to recharge or tackle something you’ve been meaning to do. Whether folding the laundry or responding to that unread text from three days ago, this space can also be a gift to you. Reframe the situation to reclaim your time and energy.

Staying calm and setting healthy boundaries fosters emotional security and shows your child that all emotions are okay. Your peaceful presence helps them learn how to navigate feelings constructively.

You’ve got this, Dad!

GOOD ON SOCIAL

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IN THE NEWS

DAD JOKE OF THE WEEK

Why do leaves invite each other to parties?

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Because they are good at branching out!"

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