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The line between helping and hovering can be thin, especially when school starts. We want to set our kids up for success, but sometimes we step in too soon, too often.

Maybe it’s finishing their homework when they’re struggling, and or emailing the teacher about a minor conflict before they’ve had a chance to try. The intention is love. The impact, though, can be disempowering.

A dad shared with me that he realized he was reviewing every homework assignment before it went in the folder, not to catch mistakes, but to feel control. When he stopped, something surprising happened: his daughter began to check her work. She asked thoughtful questions and was more engaged.

There have been numerous times when I immediately ask for assistance without trying. I coach him through whatever it is and tell him how to do so. I let him know he hasn't done it yet!

Remember, support doesn’t always mean stepping in. Sometimes, it means stepping back just enough. This can be a powerful way to empower your child.

Here’s how we can show up without taking over:

It’s not about withdrawing, it’s about shifting into a coaching role with your kid. When we trust our kids to try (and sometimes stumble), we send the message: I believe in you. That message sticks far longer than the perfect project or polished email.

Kids grow into independence when we create space for them to practice problem-solving, resilience, and self-trust. As dads, we build their confidence not by fixing everything, but by being steady as they figure things out. Supportive doesn’t mean controlling; it means believing they can rise.

One of the most important things a dad can do for a family is take control of his finances. Tracking your income, spending, and investments provides peace of mind and relief, setting a strong foundation for your family’s future.

I use Monarch to stay on top of everything. It’s a game-changer for organizing finances, budgeting, and long-term planning. It’s empowered me to create a system that works for my family, and I highly recommend it.

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