A Dad’s Role In Teaching Respect

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In This Week’s Newsletter:

• Quote of The Week - “Shame is the biggest blocker to learning” - Dr. Becky

• Javaree Talks - Why setting boundaries matters

• In the News - Validate the emotion and then focus on what’s not valid

• Money Moves - An app that helps me keep finances in order.

• Good on Social - Dr. Becky talks about shame and disconnection

JAVAREE TALKS 

As fathers, we hold a pivotal role in shaping how our children navigate the world. Clear, loving boundaries aren’t about exerting control but creating a safe environment where our kids can grow into respectful, confident individuals. Our role is crucial in this process.

For instance, setting a boundary on screen time can help children learn to manage their impulses and develop emotional regulation. Think of boundaries as guardrails on a winding road. They reassure kids that someone guides and protects them, allowing them to explore and make mistakes within a secure framework.

Move from judgment to guidance

When our kids push limits, it’s natural to feel frustrated. But in those moments, how we respond matters. Our words can either foster growth or unintentionally sow shame. The shift from judgment to guidance is about reframing our responses from criticism to constructive feedback.

Instead of reacting with criticism like: “You’re rude for doing that.” Try a response that focuses on guidance: “We don’t throw toys because someone could get hurt. Let’s clean this up together.”

This subtle shift redirects attention from blaming the child to addressing the behavior. It teaches respect and collaboration while showing your child that mistakes are opportunities to learn, not reasons to feel ashamed.

Why it matters for dads

Setting boundaries with empathy helps children develop essential life skills such as:

1. Emotional Regulation - Kids learn to manage their impulses when they feel safe within limits.

2. Respect for Others - Boundaries show how their actions impact those around them, fostering empathy.

3. Problem-Solving Skills - When we guide instead of punish, we empower our children to make better decisions independently.

At the end of the day

As dads, we’re not just enforcers of rules—we’re role models. Boundaries aren’t about saying “no” all the time. They’re about showing our kids how to navigate the world with respect, resilience, and confidence.

We strengthen our bond with our kids by approaching limits with empathy and focusing on guidance over judgment. We show them they are valued, even when they make mistakes, and that our relationship is built on trust and understanding.

Please reply to this email and let me know how you approach boundaries in your home. What’s worked well for your family?

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IN THE NEWS

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MONEY MOVES

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