7 Secure Attachment Lessons Inspired By Kobe Bryant's dad.

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• Quote of The Week - “It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men.” -Frederick Douglass

• Javaree Talks - Reflecting on advice from Kobe Bryant’s dad

• Good On Social - *New Section * Inspiration from social media

• In The News - Dads and parents in the news

JAVAREE TALKS

7 Secure Attachment Lessons Inspired By Kobe Bryant's dad.

Kobe Bryant once shared a transformative moment from his youth when he scored zero points throughout the summer. His father's response was a turning point. His dad hugged him, saying, "Whether you score 0 or 60 points, I love you." This profound message of unconditional love and support, a testament to a father's influence, fostered a secure attachment, which Kobe emphasized as the most important thing. See the clip of the video here.

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1. Emotional Security: Secure attachments provide children with a strong foundation of emotional security. Children who feel unconditionally loved are more likely to develop resilience and confidence.

2. Healthy Relationships: A secure attachment with our children helps them form healthy relationships. They learn trust, empathy, and effective communication, essential skills for building strong connections with others.

3. Better Stress Management: Children with secure attachments handle stress better. Knowing they have a dependable support system in us helps them navigate challenges more effectively.

4. Encourages Exploration: Feeling secure allows our children to explore their environment and take risks. This sense of safety fosters curiosity and a love for learning, contributing to their development.

5. Positive Self-Esteem: Children develop a positive self-image when we provide consistent support and validation. They feel valued for who they are, not just for their achievements, leading to healthier self-esteem.

6. Improved Academic Performance: Research shows that children with secure attachments perform better academically. The emotional support they receive at home translates into greater focus and motivation in their studies.

7. Long-Term Benefits: Our children are more likely to have fulfilling relationships, successful careers, and overall well-being in adulthood, all thanks to the secure attachments we create in their formative years. This underscores the weight of our role as fathers in shaping their lives.

As fathers, we must create secure attachments with our children. By embracing conscious parenting and using attachment science principles, we can significantly influence our children's growth and development, ensuring they thrive in all aspects of their lives.

GOOD ON SOCIAL

Matthew Knowles, father of Beyoncé Knowles-Carter, emphasizes the importance of his children doing their best in their endeavors rather than being the best at everything they do. This approach focuses on his children’s effort and dedication to their activities, fostering a strong work ethic and personal growth. Knowles believes that striving to do their best helps build confidence, resilience, and a sense of accomplishment, which he considers more valuable than always aiming to be number one in every aspect.

IN THE NEWS

DAD JOKE OF THE WEEK

What do you call a bear with no teeth?

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A gummy bear!